What is Paloma?
Paloma is an iPhone app with conversation cards for couples and friends. A simple prompt gives you something new to talk about, whether you have a few minutes or a whole evening.
Available now on iPhone
One question.
A better conversation.
Conversation cards for couples and friends. Pick a question, read it aloud, and see where it takes you.
Download on the App StoreFree on iPhone.
Get to know PalomaYour next conversation starts here
Download on the App StoreFree on iPhone.
Frequently asked questions.
What is it not?
It is not a quiz or study flashcards, therapy, diagnosis or relationship scoring. Paloma is for conversation. It does not assess you or promise a particular relationship outcome.
Who is it for?
Couples and friends who want to connect. No special occasion or perfect answer is needed.
How does it work?
Choose a collection, read a question aloud and take turns answering. Skip anything you would rather not answer—there is no score to keep.
Light offers an easy start, Personal invites more openness, and Deep is more reflective. Collections include Couples, Long Distance, Married, Intimate and Friends.
Start with free questions in Couples, Long Distance and Friends.
Is it available?
Yes! Paloma is available now for iPhone. Download Paloma on the App Store and start a conversation.
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